DO YOU TAKE THIS WOMAN?

"Do you take THIS woman to be your lawfully wedded Wife?"..

The above statement is a part of the standard questions the bride groom gets asked on his wedding day. 

"Do you take THIS Woman"

This (definite, specific)

NOT the Woman she CAN be

NOT the Woman she MAY be

BUT the Woman she IS now. 

THE ONE standing right before you now, as she is; size, shape, complexion, texture, thickness, width, attitude and all.

Do you take her laidat?

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Physical attraction has always been a vital key to successful Marriages, I would be the last person to lie to you.

God is not wicked, he won't lead you to marry someone you are not attracted to or someone you can not grow attraction for with time.

Marrying someone you're not attracted to can lead to marital and sexual dissatisfaction, frustration, resentment of one's spouse, extra marital affairs and all.

What am I getting at?

If you are in a Relationship with someone and you don't feel any iota of physical attraction for them, you detest their body size, height, complexion, shape, mannerisms, persona, it may be time for you to rethink what you're doing.

Pause, go and pray again. 

If a Lady's size repulses you for instance, and you have to keep nagging her every day, begs the question,

"Didn't you see the size before you came?" 

Don't marry someone and turn them into your final year project, trying to change them. 

If you ever ask a lady out, or accept a guys proposal, it means you've AGREED to take THIS WOMAN/MAN, as she/he is NOW, so take HER/HIM. 

Musa Gift