CURSED TO HIM THAT DESPISE HIS PARENTS.... DIDI-OMAH AUGUSTINE CHINAZAEKPERE

During one of the meetings, I was a speaker, and the theme was "Parental Advantage".

I can't recall the year, but everything that happened at the meeting is afresh in my memory now.

The speaker before me, spoke about an event that happened in his life. How he despised his parents for another.

Here is the story told. He grew up living with someone else, not biological his parents — but known to his parents.

He chose staying with them, never enjoyed being with his parents, he even denied his siblings at large family or social gatherings.

His mind was poisoned by the woman, he was staying with — yes, he stayed with a man and his wife. But his wife was the one poisoning his heart against his parents and siblings.

He thought he was doing the right. He did more of the chores at home, he work often, but the children of this resident parents, did little or no work in the day — in the process of time. 

He was different from his biological siblings, he was different from his resident parent's children. The difference is, he was lean, he was average in height, he was not intelligent, he was not bright in complexion.

He was eating well, but does not have time for himself, was not growing well. He was a worker, with little benefit. Why the slavery when his parents are capable?

He did not know! Until his deliverance came to him, during a sermon in his resident church. 

(Proverbs 6 vs. 20)

My son, keep thy father's commandment, and forsake not the law of thy mother:

(Proverbs 15 vs. 20)

A wise son maketh a glad father: but a foolish man despiseth his mother.

(Proverbs 17 vs. 25)

A foolish son is a grief to his father, and bitterness to her that bare him.

(Proverbs 19 vs. 26)

He that wasteth his father, and chaseth away his mother, is a son that causeth shame, and bringeth reproach.

(Proverbs 20 vs. 20)

Whoso curseth his father or his mother, his lamp shall be put out in obscure darkness.

(Proverbs 23 vs. 22)

Hearken unto thy father that begat thee, and despise not thy mother when she is old.

(Proverbs 30 vs. 11)

There is a generation that curseth their father, and doth not bless their mother.

(Proverbs 30 vs. 17)

The eye that mocketh at his father, and despiseth to obey his mother, the ravens of the valley shall pick it out, and the young eagles shall eat it.

These are the scriptures, he quoted — I was moved, I was touched. Yes, I have step mother, she is doing well and rich too — but I am happy I choose to stay with my mother, no matter what.

Me, my brother and my sister, we have lived with our step mother any times — you will even think she is our biological mother. But I thank God, for his intervention — what a blessing?

I didn't say what I wanted to speak in the meeting, I laid more insights on his story. Yes, most of us and you, are doing the same. Despising our mother, our father — for some temporary reasons. 

You are doing well, but your parents are living in struggles! What a pity?

You are living with someone, not your mother — but avoiding and can't stay with your biological mother! What a curse on you?

This one is not, enemy matter. It is you, cursing yourself. Remember, when I told you about life, I once said; "life is simple, once you know and keep its principles". 

How simple is life? So despising your parents in your wealth — you make your way dark and slippery.

Despising your parents and avoiding to be with them — you blow off your light.

It is in the Bible, go back and meet your parents, ask for mercy and return to them. Be in peace and associate with your parents — the blessings will be with you evermore.

You keep missing out, if you keep believing that the person you are living with love you more than his children. For someone to love you truly, he must be openly and friendly to your biological parents — you heard me, right! 

For someone to love you truly, he must be openly and friendly to your biological parents — if it is not, you are just a doll, hoping to receive life, to be a human. Impossible!

Do you despise your mother? Do you insult your father? Do you become careless of your parent's wellbeing? Do you hate associating with your parents? 

And you think you are enjoying life abii. You think you are doing the right thing, you will not live long. You feel joy, calling other — mother, when you hardly communicate with your real biological mother. 

The womb that born you, can curse you and the earth will act immediately. But the hand that feed, can curse you and the earth will be silence — except the person attached something precious to the curse before the earth react.

So which one is faster, the womb that born you, not the hand that feed you. Be wise, save your future, bless your generation!

© Didi-Omah Augustine Chinazaekpere 

Founder, DIDI-OMAH