Best Male-Pleasure Sex Positions

It goes without saying that sex should always be about both partners having a good time. 

That said, there could always be a special occasion where your partner may want to try a position that is extra-awesome for you. Whether it’s your birthday, anniversary, or you got a promotion at work, sometimes they just want to do something with you as the focus. And who are you to say no?

While this may mean an opportunity to try something previously off limits (like a threesome), it can also mean that rare treat.

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Your special night of you-fun may mean an extra-special blowjob — and there’s no doubt that’s special!  — or a night wjere you try something kinkier, like role-play or bondage, for the first time. It could also lead to testing the waters for anal play, sex in the shower or car sex, or somewhere more adventurous. But it doesn’t have to hold up there.

There’s lots of ways to make run-of-the-mill sex even greater, and there are some specific sex positions that, when explored, can lead to extra excitement. There are various ways to look at what a specifically male pleasure position may mean to you — for starters, though, it should be one that gives greater than average physical pleasure or one that’s especially exciting. The possibilities are endless once you get the ball rolling, but here are some great ways to get started.

How to Prepare Your Body for Sex

Work Out

Testosterone-boosting is not the stuff of myth. Whether it's playing some sports, hitting the gym to work out, watching a football game, or doing something else that you define as manly. Whatever works for you — with more testosterone in your bloodstream, the sex will simply be better. 


Go Slow

Believe it or not, sex can be more amazing for you just by slowing down. Amp up your orgasm by letting yourself get to the edge, slowing down and pausing, and then starting up again. And don’ t forget to breathe. Breathing naturally will speed up when we are about to orgasm. By letting yourself slow down and just simply breathe, you’ll control our orgasm. That’ll ultimately make it even stronger. 


Different Strokes

Embrace new variants to what you may consider a “basic” position in missionary.

“Missionary position variants give close body-to-body contact, the ability for a guy to be substantially in control of speed and other elements of the sexual encounter, and fairly deep penetration," says Carol Queen, Ph.D., Good Vibrations staff sexologist. "Depth is definitely a plus for some guys, and with his partner’s legs over his arms or shoulders, missionary becomes a deeper position. But the greatest number of nerve endings on the penis is around the coronal ridge, colloquially known as the cock head; for this kind of stimulation, more pressure or tightness is a good idea. Try the missionary variant where his partner crosses her legs to add more pressure.” 


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Side Lotus

A deeper, more intense penetration can lead to greater pleasure. In this one, he gets complete penetration while being able to manipulate her hips and legs as one unit creating an almost rocking motion. “She wraps her legs around you, hooking her ankles if she can. Facing one another, you both recline to one side,” says Dr. Jenni Skyler, resident sex expert for Adam & Eve.

Cowgirl

We want depth of penetration but we also want the pleasure of anticipation. That’s where teasing comes in.

“In this position, the woman gets to pleasure and tease the man while at the same time, he can thrust as hard or soft as he wants from below by simply pulling her down close to his chest. Both get extreme pleasure and some control,” says Briana Banks, the longest contracted adult star with Vivid.

Reverse Mantis

In all positions, their pleasure threshold is partially dependent on, simply, what we may be most into. For this one, his ass is accessible to her for full anal and/or prostate play. He gets to enjoy a whole new angle of penetration while also having access to her feet if he's into a little foot/shrimping play.

“She lies flat on her back. He mounts her in the reverse and lies flat on top of her with his head at her feet. He inserts his erect penis into her vagina by scooting back towards her,” says Skyler.

Lap Dance

In this situation, she’s treating you to something extra special  — and that is your own private lap dance! “Have her take it slow while she approaches you and starts to straddle you, as you sit in a chair or on the couch. You can enjoy the show and get very hands-on,” says Banks.

Scissor Missionary

In this “scissor” spin on mission, start by putting one leg on your shoulder, while holding the opposing leg toward the ground/bed.

“This allows for deeper penetration and limits your partners ability to move away from the action,” says Derrick Pierce, an adult actor and personal trainer.  


Girl On Top

Whether she’s facing forward or reverse, the great view is one of that aspects with the capacity to make this position particularly enjoyable. “With her on top most men report lasting longer, making this the perfect position to extend the pleasure for you both,” says Banks.

Dragon Fly

This position is a  particularly great for men who like a lot of penetration visuals. It gives him a front row view of everything while also giving him access to her clitoris and breasts. “He lies seated with his legs out with his weight on his arms behind him. She sits facing him with one or both legs over his shoulders,” states Skyler.

Doggy Style

In doggy position, you get a bird's-eye view of the action and get pleasure by giving pleasure. “Plus, you get to control the depth and pace, and your hands are free to reach around to stimulate her clitoris or breasts,” says Pierce. 

All illustrations by Carlee Ranger

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