BEFORE YOU SAY YES. (5 QUESTIONS TO ASK HIM) 

1) CAN YOU BE ALL I WANT?

A Woman INSTINCTIVELY and naturally SEEKS and NEEDS her Man to be many things.

✔️ Her FRIEND 

✔️ Her LOVER

✔️ Her GIST BUDDY 

✔️ Her PRIEST 

✔️ Her HUSBAND 

✔️ A FATHER (to their kids)

When he fails in one of this areas, it tells on her emotionally and 

This is why you ask him questions, observe him closely. And attend Marriage seminars together. 

2) CAN YOU HANDLE MY STRENGTHS? 

You have strengths, talents, gifts, passions that God has put inside of you. 

Can he handle them?

Or is he the insecure type who will want to suppress the greatness in you because you are his Wife?

3) CAN YOU HANDLE MY WEAKNESSES? 

No body is perfect,

We all have our weaknesses, and not everyone can stand us or be in our lives because of that.

If you like to talk, as in, excessively 

If you forget a lot 

If you snore  

Marry a Man who knows these about you, and doesn't care, or cares but is willing to PATIENTLY help you overcome them.

4) CAN YOU IMPROVE ME

Man is HEAD because God expects him to be AHEAD.

He may not necessarily be better than you in all aspects, but he should be able to make you a better Woman by virtue of being married to him.

You are dating somebody, after six months, take a look at your life in retrospect.

How has that Relationship IMPACTED YOU spiritually, mentally, socially, financially and otherwise 

Are you improving or going down?

Don't marry someone who is making you worse than he met you. 

5) CAN YOU STAND BY ME AND STICK TO ME? 

If there is no issue/child after one year of marriage, will he stand by you?

Ask him. 

If his family or friends make trouble, will he stand up for you?

Observe him

He'll see more beautiful, better endowed Women everyday, some willing to have an affair with him even if they know he's married, will he turn down such temptation? 

As you grow older, maybe one or two body changes occur,

Will he stand by you and help you overcome that? Or will he bail, abandon the home and start looking for younger girls.

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There are HUSBANDS

There are HORSEBANDS

Find out which that guy Is, before you say I DO.

Via. Gift m.