2025 Sex Trends, Revealed

2025 has finally arrived and we’re all wondering what lies in store. More specifically, from fashion to travel, many of us are eagerly anticipating the trends that may — whether we realize it or not — influence our choices throughout the year… and, yes, this curiosity extends into our sex lives. RELATED: Sex Resolutions for the New Year There are several exciting and unexpected erotic trends on the horizon and, according to the experts, 2025 is going to be very kinky indeed. 1. Mainstreaming Sexual Wellness and Emotional Support Mainstreaming sexual wellness and emotional support will be a key trend this year, driven by the growing integration of technology, mental health awareness, and the de-stigmatization of sexual health. Wearable health tech and apps will offer personalized insights into sexual well-being, whilst inclusive, education-based platforms will promote open discussions about pleasure and emotional safety. Ultimately, as the link between mental health and sexual satisfaction becomes clearer, wellness industries will prioritize emotional support alongside physical intimacy, reflecting a cultural shift towards viewing sexual health as a vital part of our overall wellbeing. RELATED: Understanding the Importance of Sexual Responsiveness 2. Tech Integration with Inclusivity and Accessibility In 2025, tech integration focused on sexual inclusivity and accessibility is expected to emerge as a key trend. With an increasingly diverse global population, there is a growing demand for technology in the realm of sex and intimacy to be more adaptive to various abilities, identities, and needs. From tools for sexual health and accessibility to inclusive design in intimate products and experiences, companies are focusing on creating user-centric innovations that ensure everyone can engage with intimacy in a way that suits them. This shift not only sparks innovation in the sexual wellness industry but also addresses important social and ethical issues, making inclusivity and accessibility fundamental in shaping the future of intimate technology and setting a new standard for equitable sexual experiences. 3. Expanding Relationship Models In 2025 we will see a dramatic expansion of relationship models, driven by evolving societal norms and technological advancements. Long-distance couples will use immersive virtual reality and digital avatars to maintain deep connections; solo polyamory — focused on individual independence without cohabitation or reproduction — will gain popularity; relationship anarchy will continue to flourish, embracing fluid, non-hierarchical bonds; and open marriages will adopt ‘emotional segmentation,’ whereby partners maintain exclusive emotional intimacy while exploring external connections. RELATED: Understanding Non-Monogamy in All Its Different Forms Together, these trends will reshape how we define intimacy, love, and connection, creating more inclusive, personalized, and flexible relationship structures in a tech-driven world. 4. Slow Dating Slow dating will also emerge as a key trend as people increasingly prioritise quality over quantity in their romantic lives, steering away from the fast-paced, swipe-driven culture of casual encounters. Rather than seeking instant gratification, more individuals will focus on building long-term, intentional connections that are rooted in shared values, deep emotional bonds, and mutual growth. This shift will encourage a more thoughtful approach to dating, where individuals take time to get to know one another beyond physical attraction and surface-level interactions, looking for lasting love rather than fleeting experiences. Technological innovations will play a key role in supporting this shift. For instance, relationship apps will evolve to focus on emotional compatibility, helping users identify partners with whom they share a deeper connection, not just similar interests or looks. These platforms will encourage users to slow down and engage in more meaningful conversations, using algorithms designed to promote reflective self-discovery and matchmaking based on long-term compatibility rather than superficial traits. RELATED: The Difference Between Attraction & Compatibility 5. Virtual Relationship Coaching In 2025, we will see a rise in virtual relationship coaching that specifically addresses sexual intimacy within relationships. Digital tools and human experts will offer personalized guidance for individuals and couples, helping them navigate modern challenges around sexuality. For example, these services will focus on improving sexual communication, exploring desires, and addressing issues such as mismatched libidos, consent, and emotional connection within sexual dynamics. With an increasing diversity of sexual identities and preferences, virtual coaching will help partners understand and meet each other’s needs, fostering deeper intimacy by encouraging open, non-judgmental conversations about sex. RELATED: How to Talk About Sex With a Partner Additionally, this coaching may incorporate high-tech sex toys or virtual intimacy exercises that provide real-time feedback, helping couples explore their sexual connection in a more intentional, mindful way. 6. Kink-Positive Compatibility Kink-positive compatibility will become a dominant trend in dating, as individuals increasingly seek out partners who share specific sexual interests, fetishes, and desires. Rather than just focusing on conventional compatibility, people will prioritize finding others who embrace and celebrate their unique sexual preferences, from BDSM to role-playing, foot fetishes, or non-traditional intimacy practices. This trend will reflect a broader acceptance and celebration of diverse sexual identities, allowing individuals to connect on a deeper, more authentic level. With platforms and apps catering to niche sexual preferences, users will be empowered to openly express their desires, eliminating the stigma around kinks. The result will be a more transparent, inclusive approach to dating where shared sexual interests form the foundation of genuine connection and intimacy, creating spaces for exploration without shame or secrecy. Dr. Olivia Lee, PhD, is an AASECT-certified Sex Therapist, Researcher, and the Relationship Scholar in Residence at Doll Authority. 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