10 THINGS ABOUT SEX YOU SHOULDN'T DO IN YOUR MARRIAGE 

1. Do not disclose too much about your marital sex-life to your friends. They might cheapen your marriage, make you compare with others, or ill advice you. Keep it sacred 

2. Do not be the only one who enjoys love making; don't just get pleasure, give pleasure 

3. Do not use sex as a weapon to punish your spouse in order to get what you want. This is a war that will turn ugly

4. Do not hide issues using sex. Having more great sex without resolving issues only creates an illusion and weakens your marriage 

5. Do not compare your spouse's sexual performance with that of your ex. If your ex was that great of a person, you would have married him/her but you married your spouse because of the qualities he/she has. Unlearn the past, learn new pleasure with your spouse 

6. Do not assume you know how your spouse loves to be pleasured, find out from him/her. Stop being a know-it-all

7. Do not penetrate your wife without sufficiently preparing her, you will only hurt her and love making is not meant to be painful 

8. Do not be rough on your spouse. There is a difference between forcing things and passion. Don't be rough as you handle his balls and penis, lest he loses his erection; don't be rough with her body, lest she holds it back because you don't know how to handle it 

9. Do not hurt your spouse then expect great sex. Lady, if you have a bad attitude and keep insulting and attacking your husband, he will pull away. Gentleman, if you keep hurting your wife's feelings, she will struggle to give you her body 

10. Don't mock the body of the spouse you expect to enjoy. Don't criticize his penis, his looks, her body, her breasts, her size and expect fireworks in the bedroom. Handle and address your spouse's body with respect 

© Akello Oliech and Dayan Masinde